A few weeks ago, I was at home with my three little sisters — ages 8, 17, and 19 — watching television. The two teenagers are fans of Love and Hip-Hop, which is a show about the daily lives of wives in the hip-hop music industry. They watch it every week. When I was home, I decided to watch the show with them as a form of bonding. I am not a dedicated fan of reality television and was not completely cognizant of the show’s content, but I was looking forward to spending time with them.
When the show began, I was in complete disbelief and felt embarrassed! The women were disrespectful to each other. They were manipulative, overly sexualized, venomous, tremendously emotional, angry, excessively sensitive, desperate, and always trying to physically fight one another (about a man or money). They act like what some people may consider “air heads.” Sadly, these are not unusual depictions of women on reality television.
As a black woman, I was unquestionably concerned — even livid — at the way I was being portrayed.
I continued to watch the show, optimistically waiting for a change of behavior or character. My expectations were not fulfilled. I glanced at my sisters and saw that they found the women’s behavior entertaining, which significantly increased my concern. Has this become the norm for women on reality television?
Young ladies are idolizing these women, which is both frightening and heartbreaking. Someone must do something!
Being the activist that I am, I decided to write to the network. I am not sure if it will make a momentous difference, but someone has to step up.
Shows like this make me wonder, What does the future hold for the coming generations? The media, especially reality television, is teaching them that it is standard to behave disrespectfully toward each other. It is telling them that they must be excessively sexualized or “plastic” in order to be considered beautiful.
As an educated and self-aware young woman of the 21st century, I take it upon myself to lead by example. I do this not only for myself but also for my little sisters and other young women in today’s society.
As an older sister and mentor, I vow to teach my sisters the appropriate way to behave in public. I will show them that their strengths go beyond just their looks.
I am thankful for organizations like AAUW because they permit women to soar high. It motivates and educates all women to be the leaders of tomorrow.
This post was written by National Student Advisory Council member Wilsar Johnson.
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